Protecting What We Hold Dear:  Shared Responsibility for Safety

From Rev. Alex McGee Oct 18, 2025

Dear Fellowship:
As we live out our values of caring, one way we show that is by caring for each other and our building in physical ways.  And part of that is to be prepared for events in which we might need to think quickly about safety.  

In the next month, several events will occur at UUFC to help us strengthen our preparedness muscles.  Next weekend, staff and leaders who are responsible for others will spend a morning to train in fire safety and evacuation skills.  Then, on Sunday, November 2, at the end of worship, all present will all have an opportunity to practice evacuating the building.  This will help us see all the great work that has already been done to keep a safe egress, communicate between parents and RE guides, and signage for where to gather after evacuation.  Also, practicing evacuation can help us learn ways we could improve even more.  Next, the week after, staff and leaders will receive a three-hour Know Your Rights training and Human Rights Observer training, so that we can respond quickly and effectively if ICE comes to the building.  

Finally, the Facilities Committee has been reviewing exterior locks and keys.  This is very important for the safety of those who work in the building — we need to provide a workplace that is as secure as possible, while still being welcoming.  Of course, the balance between having an open door and protecting against harm is a dynamic to hold with wise attention.   Toward that end, I ask that all members and friends remember to avoid propping the doors open, and if you must, to assign someone to watch the door.  Please give gentle reminders to those who have overlooked this.  

If you are entrusted with a key code, please hold that in a covenant of accountability.  People who know the key code are responsible for the safety and well-being of the building and people in our community.   Not everyone needs a keycode: we provide times of welcome when the office is staffed from 10 – 12 noon on Tuesday through Friday so someone is here to let you in. 

I invite all of us to reflect joyfully and thoughtfully about the many ways we steward this building and its safety.

In peace,
Rev. Alex

Secure Housing and Food for All team meeting, 10/19

The ‘Secure Housing and Food for All’ team is meeting on Sunday, October 19 at 11:45 AM in Room 3. All are invited to attend! The team will be discussing multiple topics:

  1. Thoughts on how UUFC meet needs of unhoused. 
  2. Update on Corvallis Daytime Drop-in Center.
  3. Food donation collection at the Fellowship.
  4. Men’s shelter opening in November, and taking volunteers. 
  5. Other ways UUFC folks can be of ‘good’ help. 

Childcare is available!

Free childcare can usually be arranged for any Fellowship event by using this link 1-2 weeks prior to the event.

Greeters Got Game

As a Greeter, you are the friendly face of the fellowship and extend an invitation to all who would like to join us; therefore, being friendly and welcoming is most important.

You’re invited to learn more about being a Greeter on Sunday, October 26 at the TRICK or TREAT RESOURCE FAIR. Drop by the Greeters Table and sign up – we’re game if you are!

Contact Team Lead, Heather E, for more information.

Learning Overview

Growing a faith that can grow with you!

Religious Exploration at UUFC is more than a collection of Sunday morning classes. Across the lifespan, we create opportunities to deepen relationships, encounter new ideas and experiences, and develop spiritual practices and capacities that can keep growing and changing with us.

Throughout our lives, we return to four big questions:

What do I inherit?
What stories, traditions, values, and wisdom have been handed to me from my family, culture, and religion?

Who am I?
What do I believe? What matters to me? What does my own inner voice tell me about what is true?

How do I live in right relationship with others?
How do I care for myself and other people, navigate differences, repair harm, and participate in community?

How do I use my power and values to shape the world?
How do my choices help create the communities and world I want to live in? What action are my values asking me to take?

We explore these questions through the lens of our shared JETPIG values, returning to them at different ages, in different circumstances, and with different answers as we grow.

Relationships take time

We want you and yours to have more than a place you recognize on Sunday morning. We want you to have friends you look forward to seeing, a community of care that you can trust, stories and rituals that belong to you and enrich your daily life, and a spiritual home base that makes room for your questions, uncertainty, joy, mistakes, and growth.

Those relationships don’t happen overnight. They are built through repeated encounters.

We invite you to consider what role you hope Religious Exploration will play in your life. There isn’t one right answer. But whatever your hope is, tell us. Talk about it with staff, lay leaders, and friends. Together, we can consider what fulfilling that vision asks of you and of this community.

Come as you are

Families come in countless configurations. Children arrive with different bodies, brains, communication styles, identities, histories, capacities, and needs. Adults do, too. We each bring different needs, abilities, experiences, questions, energy, and ways of engaging.

Participation doesn’t have to look the same for everyone, and participants of all ages are welcome to take the time they need to become comfortable in our spaces.

If there is information that would help us give you or your child a smoother first experience, we’d love to hear from you.

Ready to explore?

Adult Religious Exploration →

Register Children and Youth for RE →

Resources for Families →

Safe Congregation Policies and Practices →

Religious Exploration Council

The role of the Religious Exploration Council is to provide support, guidance, and coordination of RE programs.  The RE Council works closely with the Director of RE  to monitor learning needs across the lifespan of our congregation and develop materials and structures to help address those needs through classes, workshops, events, and volunteer mobilization. 

The primary tasks of the RE Council include:

~Developing and promoting programs that deepen our community’s capacity for spiritual and faithful living;

~Assessing unmet congregational needs for learning and communicating those with staff;

~Identifying potential volunteers and connecting them with the opportunities best suited to their skills and interests.

Seeker Space (grades 4-6)

A practice space for the rest of the world.

Seeker Space is where children get to put the stories and values they’ve inherited to the test. This is an age when kids are increasingly able to notice contradictions, hold competing ideas, spot hypocrisy, and ask whether what they’ve been taught actually makes sense. We think those emerging capacities belong in religious life.

Through immersive adventures, role-playing, stories, games, and plenty of movement, Seekers practice questioning, disagreeing, discerning, collaborating, and figuring out what they believe. Rather than asking children simply to absorb our values, we give them opportunities to try those values out in complicated situations and notice what holds up.

This is also the first age at which our children create a covenant rather than simply working within classroom rules. A covenant is an agreement about how we will be together, and at this age children have increasing agency to participate meaningfully in creating, testing, and keeping those agreements.

The promise underneath it all is important: you can test what you’ve inherited here. You can share what’s hard and ask difficult questions. You can change your mind. None of that puts your belonging at risk

What Sundays look like

Seekers begin in the sanctuary with their families and leave together after Time for All Ages.

In Seeker Space, we light our lantern, check in, revisit our covenant, and then dive into immersive exploration. Role-playing adventures, values dilemmas, active games, and wisdom stories from around the world give children ways to explore big questions without spending Sunday morning sitting around intellectualizing them.

The games are fun on purpose. They’re also doing work underneath the surface: practicing deep listening, noticing context clues, honoring other people’s contributions, negotiating differences, making decisions together, and trying out ways of being in relationship.

Relationships matter here

Peers become especially important at this age. Kids are much more likely to want to spend Sunday morning here when the people they consider their people are here, too.Our Guides are becoming trusted confidants as well as teachers. They listen seriously to children’s needs, ideas, struggles, and hopes and offer warm, loving feedback. They shape the program in response to the group while still providing most of the structure and direction.Regular enough participation for acquaintances to become actual friends—and relationships that sometimes extend beyond Sunday morning—helps make Seeker Space a community children experience as their own.

Participation can look different

Children may opt out of any activity. They can watch. They can sit nearby. They can take their time.We believe engagement requires trust, and trust requires time. We also believe that more learning happens from the sidelines than most adults realize. Proximity to learning is often excellent learning.What children may not do is make participation difficult for everyone else. If a child’s way of opting out becomes disruptive or communicates to other children that their participation is embarrassing or “lame,” we’ll first invite them into a more relational way of being present. If that’s simply not possible for their body that morning—which can be entirely developmentally appropriate!—we’ll lovingly reunite them with their family in the sanctuary. They’re welcome to try again another Sunday.

Good to know

Seeker Space children begin Sunday in the sanctuary with their families and leave together for Room 9, at the top of the classroom wing stairs, after Time for All Ages.

Pick-up is at 11:15 AM, or immediately following the service if it runs long.

Helpful links

Register for Childen and Youth for Religious Exploration →

Free Childcare Form →

Safe Congregation Policies and Practices →

Resources for Families →

October 19, 2025 – Compassion as an Open Door

Anger and indignation may well up for us as we read the news.  But spiritual teachers such as Howard Thurman have convincing arguments for why love is better for us and for everyone.  Can we perhaps have compassion for our own anger?

Rev. Alex will preach and the choir will sing.

Helpers Needed for Holiday Fair, 12/6

If you are a musician, consider joining the fun of the Holiday Fair by volunteering to play seasonal music during the fair for an hour between 9 am and 3 pm on Saturday, December 6. One of the highlights of last year’s Holiday Fair was the live music in the lobby during this beloved annual event.

The Holiday Fair team is looking for volunteers to help prepare for and run the event.  We need help with various tasks leading up to the event, including baking goodies to donate to the event, posting flyers, and collected donated children’s items.  On the day of the event, we will need help with things like greeting, cashiering, and providing vendor relief.  If you are interested in helping out with one or more of these roles, please use the links below to sign up.

Volunteering Before the Holiday Fair

Volunteering During the Event

A document describing the different volunteering positions can be found here.  Please reach out to holiday.fair@uucorvallis.org with questions.