Invitation to Visit the Ancestor Tree through October

In this tender season of remembrance, we are approaching our traditional Ancestor Tree with gentle intention and a small change. In an effort to care well for our grounds and to make this ritual more accessible to all, we’ve reimagined where and how we gather the names of those we carry in our hearts.

You are invited to visit the table in the classroom wing, just outside the RE office, where you will find an altar box, paper leaves, and pencils. On a leaf, write the name of someone or something that has meant something and has died. A mentor, a teacher, a beloved pet, a family member, a forest, a river, a place that held you. Let this be a moment to name what matters. Add your leaf to the trees placed on either side of the altar box—our new Ancestor Trees.

There, you will also find a basket of blessings for what was real and lost. You are welcome to take one. Read it there in a quiet moment, or tuck it into your pocket for a day when you need to remember that you are not alone. That love persists. That absence, though real, is never the full story.

Please linger to read the names others have offered. Let yourself be moved by the web of connections among us—the invisible threads of people and places that have shaped the ones we now hold in Beloved Community. These names are echoes of resilience, tenderness, and transformation. They remind us that we are always standing on sacred ground.

And as you reflect, consider this: What does it mean to become an ancestor? To live in such a way that one day, someone might speak your name with love and longing?

This is not just a ritual of memory. It’s a quiet invitation to live with greater intention, greater courage, and greater tenderness, for those who came before, those who walk beside us now, and those who will follow.

With you in the mystery,

Skyla

October 12, 2025 – Joy as an Improbable Friend

In these political times, joy may seem an impossible thing.  But world religions throughout time have named joy as a human experience that wells up again and again.  Let us explore how to honor it.

Rev. Alex McGee will preach and the drop-in choir welcomes all.

Behind the Music: Solid stone is just sand and water, baby

Dave Eckert from the Canoe Family Project and the Corvallis Sustainability Coalition shared his reflection, “Learning to be a Neighbor in the Land of the People of the River” for today’s sermon. Dave’s message invited us to contemplate how we acknowledge and respond to the history of land stolen from Indigenous peoples, and the music in today’s service is meant to mirror that same journey, moving through awareness, intention, action, and transformation.

The prelude drew from the UU hymnals, including “There’s a River Flowing” and “Shall We Gather at the River”, in keeping with the sermon’s river theme. After “Shall We Gather at the River” got us in the mood for some gospel music, our first song for gathering – “Hush, Hush, Somebody’s Calling My Name” – followed, serving as an invitation, both into the sanctuary as we began our time together, and also an invitation to listen to the land, to the rivers, to history, and to voices that have too often been silenced. Our second song for gathering, “I’m On My Way”, got our energy flowing and helped transition from the idea of listening to getting started. What can we do? How can we deal our feelings about stolen land and the injustices of the past? What opportunities are available to help us learn and grow?

“We’ll Build a Land” became a call to action when paired with Dave’s sharing of the performances, activities, and opportunities available that have helped him learn, grow, celebrate cultural exchanges, and pay his respects as a way to acknowledge the wrongs that were committed and contribute to a more harmonious future. If we all look for ways to repair, make amends, and live and learn together peacefully, we can build a world that honors all people and the earth.

I played Beth Nielsen Chapman’s “Sand and Water” for today’s offertory, which in itself is a beautiful song, but also felt very appropriate for today’s message. Its poignant text (excerpts below) holds space for grief and change – both subjects that were prevalent in Dave’s remarks. The removal of Indigenous peoples was more than just the taking of land; it was the deliberate destruction of these tribes’ physical, spiritual, cultural, and ecological world, which has caused lasting damage and trauma for centuries. This history is tragic and shameful, but just like water can shape sand into stone, our actions today can make for a better history by carving paths for growth, respect, and deeper connection.

All alone, I didn’t like the feeling
All alone, I sat and cried
All alone, I had to find some meaning
In the center of the pain I felt inside.

All alone, I came into the world
All alone, I will someday die
Solid stone is just sand and water, baby
Sand and water, and a million years gone by.

Our final hymn was “Be Ours a Religion”, encouraging us to, in words heard often over the years at the Fellowship, “Let everything we do be done with love”. A religion that “goes everywhere” helps us become the kind of people who love freely, honor the land and its original people, build communities of respect, and move toward justice and healing.

The postlude “As I went Down to the River to Pray” is a tune I played somewhat recently, during the Gathering of the Waters. I normally try keep my musical rotation large and varied so there is a wide range of music for Sunday services, but the imagery of cleansing, community, renewal, and of course a river made this song feel like an apt ending for today’s service. Through these songs and messages, we’re invited into a living practice of neighborliness; one that listens deeply, springs to action, builds courageously, and returns again and again to gratitude and respect. Here in the land of the People of the River, may we keep learning how to be good neighbors to one another, and to this place we call home.

Democracy Action Team, Tuesdays & Thursdays

The DAT is proud to announce that letter writing is officially back! Join us in person on Tuesdays (in the UUFC library) and on Zoom (link HERE) on Thursdays – both at 5:30 pm. We’ll write to voters in Pennsylvania asking them to retain State Supreme Justices who oppose partisan gerrymandering and to Virginia to inform voters of issues that will help them understand the choices they face in the upcoming state election. We will also write to our legislators. We’ll have addresses and supplies on Tuesdays.

Contact Claire M. for information.

Kirtan with Gina Sala and Friends, 10/10

Featuring Jeanette Kangas (tabla), Johanna Beekman (vox), David Campbell (trumpet) & friends.

Come feel your mind, body and heart relax and reconnect Friday, October 10, 7-8:30 PM in the UUFC’s Sanctuary as we immerse in world chants, meditative manra, groove and story with life-long chanter and long-term teacher and sound yogni Gina Salā and her wonderful band.

Let’s raise the vibration!

LEGATO potluck, 10/8

Everyone is welcome to join the choir and band for a meal of laughter, goodwill and perhaps song! The Fall weather beckons a warm, cozy meal shared with others. The LEGATO potluck is Wednesday, October 8 at 6:30 PM. Come early if you can help set up tables. This is followed by rehearsal at 7:00 PM.

Bring a dish to share (please identify all ingredients), a serving utensil (if needed) AND YOUR OWN PLACE SETTING & WATER BOTTLE – this is a low-impact meal.

This is a Connect Up Event with the purpose of building community within the UUFC congregation.

UUFC Women’s Retreat 2025 – deadline to register is 10/5

Please register by Oct. 5 for the Women’s Retreat –
“Right Here, Right Now: Peace through Practice” – We will share practices that may help you find peace in your center, peace in your connections, and peace in your community. At this time, Peace through Protest is a way to be in balance, even if we’re wobbly.

The Women’s Retreat will be held at the UUFC on Friday night Oct. 17 from 6:30 – 8:30 pm and from 9:00 am – 7:00 pm on Saturday, Oct. 18. On Saturday, lunch will be served at noon, and there will be program options that include participating at the No Kings protest at the county courthouse. The $55 fee for the retreat includes two meals on Saturday catered by Forks and Corks.

Please register using this form. https://uufc.breezechms.com/form/wr2025.
Payment can be made online or by check to the UUFC with “Women’s Retreat” in the memo line.
Volunteers, suggestions, and questions are welcome at womensretreat@uucorvallis.org.

Last Chance for Chalice Circle Popups!

There are two more chances for participating in a Chalice Circle experience this October: on Thursday, October 9 and/or Sunday, October 12. Signups are online via this Google Form (https://bit.ly/fall25chalice)

Want to find out more about chalice circles? Attend the next Inquirers Series featuring them on October 5, or read the FAQ at: https://uucorvallis.org/chalice-circles/.

Email: chalicecircles@uucorvallis.org

How to donate to the monthly Outreach Offering

Each month, the Fellowship gathers donations for a certain charitable cause. These are our Outreach Offerings. You can contribute to this month’s offering in a few ways:

  1. Give to the Sunday collection plate
  2. Donate online
  3. Donate to the refreshments during the social hour

The Social Concerns team donate an assortment of sweet and savory refreshments, including gluten-free and vegan choices, for our enjoyment at the social hour following Sunday worship. These items are purchased and prepared by the team to encourage donations to the Outreach Offering. Collection baskets are always found at the end of the refreshments table. The next time you’re eyeing something tasty on the table, consider putting a donation in the basket first to show how much you appreciate having that treat ready and waiting for you!